Relationships In The Country : Indians Prefer Using Scientific Compatibility Test To Determine Partner

Posted on May 10, 2018March 20, 2026 by ANI INPUTS

This 2018 survey remains highly relevant as Indians increasingly embrace data-driven approaches to understanding relationship compatibility.

Key Findings on Indian Relationship Preferences

80% prefer scientific compatibility tests over relying on feelings alone
Top qualities valued: Trustworthiness (52%), Positive outlook (43.6%), Humility (36.6%)
Compatibility factors: Shared responsibility (50%), Conflict resolution (48%), Financial choices (36.5%)
Women increasingly assertive about desires for intimacy and independence
Family planning declining: Both genders ranking it lower than previous generations

A Compatibility Test For All

The research team at GreenThumbs recently conducted a nationwide relationship survey in collaboration with Psyft.com, an online survey and personality assessment portal. The focus was on romantic relationships and compatibility between partners. Participants ranked 33 parameters on a scale of 0 to 10. The sample size was 3154 respondents, it covered both men and women in the ratio Female 58.3 percent; Male 41.7 percent.

Personality Traits That Really Matter In Relationships

Trustworthiness (52 percent), Positive outlook towards life (43.6 percent) and Humility (36.6 percent) were ranked as the top three qualities valued in a partner.

Surprisingly, Physical Attractiveness was consistently ranked the lowest by both men and women, which is unusual in a society that has been fixated on beauty products like “fair and lovely” since a long time.

Top Compatibility Factors

Attitude towards sharing responsibility emerged as the top couple compatibility factor with 50 percent of the participants scoring it nine or above. Conflict Resolution Style (48 percent) and Financial Choices (36.5 percent) rank second and third respectively, across gender and age groups in Indians.

What Women Want – More Sex, More Freedom, No Kids

The survey also discovered a growing assertiveness among women i.e. women are now more expressive and vocal about their desires. A whopping majority of women ranked Sex Drive or Desire for Intimacy in a partner higher than their male counterparts. And this pattern becomes more pronounced as age increases. The desire for raising a family seems to be falling out of favour, with both males and females ranking it low. The pattern was seen across age groups. Open Mindedness is among the top five qualities women value in a partner.

Men Give Priority To Strong Family Values

For men, their partner’s ability to function well in a family unit is paramount, while women place greater value on positivity and a caring attitude.

Majority Indians Want A Scientific Compatibility Test

But most importantly, 80 percent of the survey participants, both men and women, indicated that they would prefer taking a reliable, scientific compatibility test with their partner rather than rely on their feelings alone. People don’t want to leave their choice of partner to chance.

“We found some really interesting revelations around two important factors – Finances and Communication. People do not seem to be bothered much by how rich or poor someone is at the time of getting together, but once they are in a relationship, it becomes vital that both partners have similar financial choices vis a vis saving, spending habits, etc. This is true for both genders. Also, people don’t attach much value to how skilled a communicator their partner is, as long their partner’s communication style matches or suits their own,” said Dr Neha Manchanda, Director, GreenThumbs.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is the scientific compatibility test mentioned in the Indian relationship survey?

The survey evaluated 33 parameters on a scale of 0-10 to measure relationship compatibility. It assessed personality traits, attitude toward shared responsibility, conflict resolution styles, financial choices, and intimacy preferences between partners across different demographics.

Why do Indians increasingly prefer compatibility tests over traditional relationship methods?

The survey shows 80% of Indians value data-backed compatibility assessment because it provides objective insights into partnership dynamics. This reflects a shift toward informed decision-making in romantic relationships, moving beyond purely emotional considerations to ensure long-term compatibility.

What traits do Indian men and women value most in partners according to the survey?

Trustworthiness ranks highest at 52%, followed by positive life outlook at 43.6% and humility at 36.6%. Interestingly, physical attractiveness was consistently ranked lowest by both genders, challenging common beauty-centric perceptions in Indian society.

How has Indian women’s assertiveness in relationships changed based on this data?

The survey reveals growing assertiveness among Indian women, who rank intimacy desires higher than male counterparts. Women are increasingly vocal about their preferences for freedom and self-determination, with this pattern becoming more pronounced in older age groups across the study.

Are Indian couples prioritizing family planning less than before?

Yes, both Indian men and women rank desire for raising a family lower than previous generations. This shift reflects changing societal values and priorities, with couples increasingly focusing on personal fulfillment, career aspirations, and partnership quality over traditional family planning expectations.

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